Relationship with Money
You may have the misconception that you are what you buy. You may believe on some level that the more you spend, the more successful and important you are. Developing that mindset is easy because all of us are constantly bombarded with messages that equate money and stuff with success.
How often do you see ads promoting frugality, saving, or self-denial? If you’re struggling to keep up with the Joneses, you may need to reevaluate your friendships. The Joneses may be driving you straight to the poorhouse.
Maybe you spend money for emotional reasons. For example, think about what you do when you feel sad or disappointed, or when you want to celebrate a success. Do you head to the mall? Do you click on your favorite retail Web site? Do you treat yourself to an expensive meal or enjoy a weekend getaway even though you really can’t afford it? If so, spending may have become a sort of addiction. Everyone likes to reward themselves from time to time, but doing so continually is a problem, and losing track of whether you can afford to treat yourself is a cause for real concern.
If emotional spending describes your behavior to a T, you need to get a handle on it fast. One option is to meet with a mental health professional; you may qualify for help from a low-cost/no-cost clinic in your area.
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Facing Financial Facts
We understand. Facing financial facts can be unsettling and even scary.
When you know the state of your finances, it becomes hard to ignore the fact that improving your financial situation requires changing your lifestyle and making some big sacrifices. But no matter how scary it is, confronting the reality of your financial situation is essential and the good news is that seeking out this book is a terrific first step to doing just that.
Figuring out where you are so you know where you need to go. Until you come face to face with the actual facts of your finances, you may find it impossible to develop the resolve and self discipline you need to implement your plan of action. That’s why we begin with this series of fact-finding exercises to get you going.
The more bad news you get as you complete these exercises, the more critical it is that you get serious about dealing with your debts. The sooner you do that, the quicker and easier it will be to improve your finances and the less likely that your creditors will take some of your assets or that you’ll have to file for bankruptcy.
So let’s get going!
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Retiring Comfortably
You see yourself laughing with friends on a boat, perhaps, a merrily clinking drink in your hand, with a little paper umbrella, recounting stories to captivated friends? Snapping photos of the Great Pyramid or strolling through some exotic, colorful bazaar? Or maybe you’d like to do nothing but play golf everyday and lunch in the sun? Well, we hope we’re not the first to tell you that Social Security isn’t going to cover that stuff. When it comes to clichés, we try to avoid them like the plague, but here’s one that is most definitely true: Failing to plan is planning to fail.
To enjoy your Golden Years to their full extent, you absolutely have to prepare for them, and the sooner the better. Fortunately, retirement plans such as IRAs, 401(k)s, and 403(b)s are excellent vehicles for doing just that. Also, if you’ve been paying off that big house that got you through your full nest period, there’s a way to make that house start paying you back: the reverse mortgage. The Internet is a great resource in these areas as well.
And once you are retired, that doesn’t mean you can slack off on all the financial tricks and skills you’ve gained or you could very well end up spending your “retirement” greeting people at your neighborhood supermegacenter. That’s why we have a chapter on great ways of managing your money in retirement.
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